Friday, July 31, 2009
Newton said "when you do something, it revert back right into your ass with full force". Well, you have to believe it without choice. You eat a list of things in a given day starting with a milk tea and then four chapattis, aloo masala, pizza, pepperoni, nuggets, tea again, mutton biryani, vegetable salad, prawn, egg masala, pepper pappad, gobi Manchurian, chicken lollypop, cappuccino, ice lemon tea, Mexican burger with extra cheese, tea again with samosa, 4 aloo gobi parotta, paneer tikka, chenna masala, fruit salad, apple milk juice and ends with a desert. Well, next morning you will see the newton’s theory implification and feel sorry for what you ate.
You curse about the hot weather the whole summer and then the rain pours down like it is not going to get another chance screws your entire evening plans including dating a hot guy. And when you step right into the street you have to do all this bungee jumping because of the rain water mixed with holy Koovam river stays everywhere on the road. Well Newton really sucks, bigtime.
Somebody said if a butterfly flaps its wings there will be a reaction somewhere in the corner of the world, it’s totally true. Don’t mistake it for Globalization. Poor butterfly has nothing to do with your commercial world; it’s just wanted to fly away from you so that it can get rid of your stinking smell. Personally I can flap my arms like a bird and fly to the moons, but finding someone special, who is my type, is really difficult.
There is this guy in g4m who kept sending messages to me quite a while ago. Obviously I was one of those guys who go for looks in the first place when I date someone, so when I saw his pictures which were not impressive, I said ‘Not interested’. Then I met the same guy in the Gay Pride after few months and I found the guy irresistibly hot, he got this sweet smile which will melt your heart right away. I sent him a message asking for a date this time he replied with ‘Sorry, you are too late’…Well, Newton’s theory again.
There are so many things in life proving Newton's theory like the immediate reaction you get from your dad while showing your Progress report or a heavy and long jerk off the never-do-it-again feeling you get after your cumshot or the hysterical comments i am going get from Newton's cousins for this article. Well, Newton is everywhere these days.
But sometime Newton looks like a stupid and his theories, especially in g4m. You keep on sending messages to some hot guy, but he never responds like our unanswered prayers to the god, you wonder whether your messages been translated into some alien language in g4m by mistake. You can forgive poor old Newton, if he ever had one profile in g4m he would have never come up with that equal and opposite reaction theory.
Obviously Newton plays every part of our life, but we must try to proof him wrong. We can’t let someone like weird looking Newton to decide our life. If things go wrong when you do something, we fight it back just like the baby which tries to walk even after several falls. Nature taught us the technique even when we were a baby. When you let someone know you are gay, there is going to be obvious reaction to it, but we are not taking it back, we fight to live the way we are, not the way they wanted. Let us show our middle finger to Newton.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
There wasn’t anyone at home but me, they all have gone to attend a marriage and would be gone till the next evening. Two beers left in my fridge, 21:00 Hrs, perfect time to have some FUN . I login at Yahoo messenger and join the Chennai Global Chat room number 9 !!! 22 M Santhome With place !! I advertise , lots of guys pinged me & I selected two from them they were very HOT (Saw their Cams) ! But they said they cant meet me right then, but swapped numbers with me. I happened to pick up a conversation with one Bro X who earlier used to live in the street perpendicular to that where I lived but shifted to Perungudi. We talked almost everything under the sun, stuff like religion and everything!!! I learnt that he comes from a very devout Catholic family!! And was a parishioner at the same church my dad prays at. We could not meet that very night. We planned to meet the next week or whenever my place was free
Three days later I met him near the church; there was something crazy about his dress and the way he spoke. He was a CATHOLIC PRIEST!!!!! He belongs to the Jesuit Seminary; he was doing a research on GAYS!!! He actually wanted to pick up information and that’s why he had chat with me!!! All this he told me after I took him home and was READY for it!!!! He gave me a picture of mother Mary – Sancta Maria, Mater Dei which means Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us, and gave an hour long lecture on eternal damnation, the bible, Sodom and Gommorah and the laws and the statutes of the Lord!! We went out for a walk after that and he left shortly.
We meet for the second time and now in Loyola College at his room. He prayed for me and took me out for lunch, gave me a longgggg piece of advice to turn STRAIGHT !!! By now we both were more like brothers I started talking to him about my personal problems. But I felt something somewhere was going wrong – yes I couldn’t take a stand and tell him that this is how I wanted to be. We were in contact for a while and used to meet at coffee day until he flew to Afghanisthan to serve at a church there as a lecturer.
One day he again calls me and says he is in Chennai and would like to meet me. The moment he saw me he came running hugged me and said “Good to see you again loving brother, how are you?” and kissed me on my cheeks!! I guessed the next question – Do you still date men ?? I said –YES ! He again started his , Oh! You need Jesus in your life – lecture. I just wanted to leave from there. He did not stay long that time.
Afghanishtani Chruch – Economy teacher – Bro X !! he sends mail about bible , jesus, mother mary, etc.,etc.,!!! But now I took a stand and said im GAY I cant change , Will you marry or not ??? – Yes I will, but a MAN !!! (I was proud of myself when I said that so loudly over phone everyone around me looking at me!!!). he just said – I still love you brother !!! I said - me too.
Month of June – 28th – Chennai Pride Parade everyone is excited, lots of people come out to their parents and close friends!!!
29th I go online J again ;) – Bro X again!!! We were talking about the Pride, and I slowly started talking about how the church tortured the homosexuals and others those days. He said that he doesn’t support everything that the church says, he said- The church says not to use condoms, but what will a married hetero-sexual couple do when they want to have sex and not a baby!!! Use a condom!! I thought now is the moment!! I said – Bro X what do you personally, not what you were taught at the church, you as a priest and your own personal opinion, what do you personally feel about gays. He was explaining many things and said “Religion is between YOU and GOD, just the two of YOU, FUCK the church!!!!” I was sooooooooooo gggllaadddddd I couldn’t type a word I was moved to tears!!! Now I said – Brother I Love you!!! He said – I love you too my dear little one- God bless you!!! He had to go out for shopping and I stepped out of the cafe so GAY and HAPPY!!!!!
Written by : Desmond
Monday, July 27, 2009
Chennai Dost Team
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Well I like many others do believe in horoscopes. It is said to be a super maths where one (an expert) can calculate the position of the "stars" time of birth etc and predict our character and future. Good, it is interesting. But does all the experts are able to predict correctly the future of all their 'clients'. I doubt. I have visited many astrologers and men with super powers. To be frank I was always tense when I meet them--WHAT IF they found out I am 'gay' and revealed my most guarded secret to the world?
Thank God no one has ever been able to do it (I even wondered whether they knew if such persons existed.) I am happy about this ignorance.
When they could predict very many things like love marriage, arranged marriage, birth of children, separation, extra marital affair, divorce second marriage etc etc why not the fact of being gay?
It was really a puzzle. We find that the gay life was in existence even in olden days. Then may be the ancestors thought not to make a big issue of it?? May be or thought it as a passing phase in life not to mention or cover it up?? Well one really does not know.
Regarding the question why the predictions or prophesies of even the greatest astrologers does not prove correct in all cases, there is a story line to it. Once Sage Viswamithrar came up with greatest finding of a formula by which one could predict (if he masters the formula) each and every minute of a human life. He reported it to Lord Shiva who tested him and he was able to tell Shiva what exactly Sakthi was doing that particular minute. Lord Shiva was thrilled to find that his devotee has made such a discovery. So both went to Lordess Sakthi and proved the formula. Mrs. Shakthi was displeased rather than being happy. She immediately cursed that the formula will never be able to work correctly. Flabbergasted at this Lord Shiva and Sage Visvamithrar asked for the reason. The Mrs. Lordess Shakthi said smilingly that "men dont think on sensitive and explained that it could lead to disaster on privacy and every private moment could be predicted and 'seen' clearly and would be a shame if every thing could be predicted. Secrets have to be secrets in some cases.
Both agreed but still thought that the formula of prediction is too good to lose. So they pleaded for modification of the curse. Hence Lordess Shakthi took pity and said no one can predict the exact minute details of privacy and no one will be able to predict 100% perfectly in all cases. Hence no one is able to predict everything correctly. I think that is why Gays were protected by the gods. (?)
Maybe now the Gay issue is given so much publicity that the astrologers of tomorrow will give it as a reason to answer queries on delayed marriage or refusing to marry. And who knows they might even offer special poojas to "cure” the person. Whether it will help to solve the problem of gay guys in the closet or not is a question each will have to decide.
This month Gay Horoscope, the lighter side of what the stars say for you.
ARIES March 21 - April 19
It goes from bad to worse to terrible this month. How bad does it get? When was the last time you were tempted to phone your ex and suggest maybe it might be a good idea to get back together again? Yeah, that bad. So there's really only one solution, if your month is going to be that bad, then make it really ba-a-a-ad, dude. I mean, like down, dirty, filthy, ugly, ghastly, horrible ba-a-a-ad. If it's just going to be karma (and trust me, this month is karma in spades), then figure out a way to enjoy the lust. Like some sins is just too much fun not to enjoy. And if you're going to have to pay for it anyway, then at least pay with a stupid smile on your face for something you really enjoyed that turned your crank big time.
TAURUS April 20 - May 20
Beware getting distracted by friends with a huge bulge in their pants. It's padding. This is your month to be deceived by those with hot crotches and twisted agendas, although you might not see the difference given the energy the stars bring to your life. If it's not the words, then it's the seductive look, and if it's not the seductive look, then it's the promises, and if it's not the promises, it's the husky voice, and if it's not the husky voice, it's the body. Sound like you last love affair? Yup, only worse. This time you might actually believe it all. Dangerous, dangerous. Beware commitments made in the peak of orgasm. You will live to regret them, the commitments that is. Other than that, not a half bad month for making money. Go figure.
GEMINI May 21 - June 20
You are about to get snookered, and we are going to love watching the show. Now let's set the stage. You've spent how many years now flitting about like a butterfly from one bedroom to the next, never getting to the point of anything except the release in your groin, and often enough that was an afterthought. Hope you enjoyed it while it lasted, duckie, 'cause the Universe is going to get its revenge on you. You are so ripe to meet what you think is just another silly trick to cast aside, when WHAM! You fall head over heels in love having finally met someone who takes you to the core of your very soul and bounces you off the wall to boot. And you never saw it Cumming. All the smart money is betting on this one. (BTW, it won't last.)
CANCER June 21 - July 22
Crawl out of your bloody little hole for once. Look, if the boss says you gotta travel this month, well so what if it's an existential crisis because you have to leave home for three days? I mean, you can hire a cat-sitter for Christ sakes. And for once stop whining. Do you have any idea what action awaits you in some foreign land while officially you're out of town "at work"? Look even the expense account is covering this one. Ahem............only a damn fool would say no to this opportunity. Get your passport updated, Dorfus. Do you have any idea how many drop-dead gorgeous people stand in line with a passport application they can't figure out? Now wouldn't it be just right if you helped them a little bit?
LEO July 23 - August 22
Maybe I'll just shake my head and walk away flumbustergated right off the top. Every little fantasy you've wanted, you get. Every big fantasy you've wanted, you get. Every hot little number you've ever dreamed about, you get. Every hot little affair your throbbing crotch has ever desired, you get. Every perfect soul mate you've every spent umpteen past lives with, you again meet. Every lottery you've ever bought tickets for, you win. Now maybe when I get over being totally flumbustergated, maybe one of us will wake up and realize that dreams are what make the long lonely nights tolerable.
VIRGO August 23 - Sept. 22
As if you need any new reasons to rip yourself apart on the insides, but just in case you're starting to run low on neurosis (which I doubt, but then life is full of surprises which is what drives a Virgo bats), here's one to rip your pants off. The stars say the only way your horny home life can be satisfied is by traveling to a foreign land which you, temporarily at least, call home. A bit of a contradiction. The only really successful resolution is to find a foreigner to massage your home parts, which are fine until you fall in love, and then tune in for next month when you wake up and realize you've totally forgotten about Sainthood. The Virgo Committee will not be amused.
LIBRA Sept. 23 - Oct. 22
Any excuse for a party. November is good enough. Maybe you can dream up a couple of other shallow justifications, but November will do. But this party has to be a bit different. It's a foreign party. No locals. The guest list must all be from some exotic land, and we would hope everyone speaks with a suave, charming, but difficult-to-identify accent. Toss out your tacky Barbara Streisand CDs, dear, and get something exotic, like the chanting Llamas from the Peruvian uplands. Cater some truly arcane cuisine, like Mongolian midnight water mangos. Light up some African fertility candles, and then Viola! It finally happens. You finally have your chance to score the humpy little Italian who just moved in down the hall last month.
SCORPIO Oct. 23 - Nov. 21
Pardon me if I yawn, but is there ever a month in your life which is not Sex Month? It's not that I'm bored (although I think I've seen this show before), or ungrateful (how can I not say thank you for more salacious gossip than one could ever find on a soap opera?), but could we just try something perhaps, just a little more original? I mean plunging into soul-searing sex with a dark, mysterious stranger who seems to have the aura of the Secret Celestial Beings of the Seventh Order of the High Secret Brotherhood of The Chosen Ascended Masters, is like so been-there-done-that. I mean, like could you just send me the T-shirt instead? Or maybe a postcard? Even a laundry list might be a nice change of pace.
SAGITTARIUS Nov. 22 - Dec. 21
Your lover has never told you the truth, never will, and never could if so motivated, which your lover definitely is not. And everything, I do mean everything, is your lover's fault, without exception. Fine. Now that we've covered the basics, grab said lover and proceed to the bedroom. Leave the quarrel and the door. Turn off the lights, light up some incense........(Geeze, this is starting to sound like one of those horrible relationship manuals we all barf at when we channel surf into it, but then even Sagittarians need reminding about priorities.)..........seduce the stinking little blighter! Who the hell gives a damn about lyin' cheatin’
‘words when you've got the hottest little number this side of heaven to f**k?
CAPRICORN Dec. 22 - Jan. 19
Fairy tales can come true, it can happen to you, but not this month. First off, that hot business deal? Be very wary. There's something you don't know about that's being hidden from you that you better get a handle on before you commit yourself. So off to the bars. See that swarthy little number in a dark corner giving you the eye? Be very wary. There's something you don't know about that's being hidden from you that you better get a handle on before you commit yourself. Ah well, there's always your favorite park for cruising. Be very wary. There's something you don't know about that's being hidden from you that you better get a handle on before you commit yourself. The tubs? Be very wary. There's something you don't know about that's being hidden from you that you better get a handle on before you commit yourself. Got the idea for this month?
AQUARIUS Jan. 20 - Feb. 18
Be careful what you wish for, dear Aquarius, because you just might get it. Haven't you always wished for the perfect friend, who just turns out to be the perfect lover, soul mate, and life companion, but really just the finest friend one could ever have? Uh-huh. You wouldn't be an Aquarian if you were not hard-wired with that fantasy. Well, here's your month. Go for it...................ah; you're waiting for the catch. You're right. Just what would you do if you actually found such a person? Would you be prepared to stop playing your games, get real, and settle down to a reasonable little life behind a white picket fence in some god-forsaken suburb filled with breeders and born-agains? Be careful what you wish for, my friend.
PISCES Feb 19 - March 20
I was tempted to leave the Pisces section blank, because that pretty much sums up November for you, but then my agent phoned up and said I better say something. Okay. "Something." How many ways can we talk about this something, The Void, the great Emptiness which is everything but not something at all? It is The All which is Nothing yet is really something. Yeah, it's starting to sound like I'm on weirder drugs than you are or something. So let's see if we can anchor, ground, or at least do something with this ephemeral meandering. Any fantasy comes to mind? Mind? Oh, sorry, read the installation manual, and then boot something up. Something might just happen, but then again it might not. Not to worry, we'll think of something. Something like that, I guess.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Coming back to the point, I told my friend with an irritated tone that nobody will be online at this ghost time, unless you are some Call centre guy trying to hold a conversation with an irritated customer to educate him the difference between Microsoft Windows and glass windows of his house. 5 years before I was working in a call centre as part time, my shift actually starts at 2.00 a.m midnight. My dad usually jokes about it saying that if I am a call centre guy or a call boy leaving for work at midnight. Of course I was getting fucked by those irritated US customers by phone. I was wondering what triggers my friend to wake me up in the middle of my sleep and wanted me to be online. He asked me to go online and check youtube.com. Well then, I lost my patience. I told him that he dared to wake me up this time and check some stupid videos, but eventually I did. I logged in. As usual my internet is one of the slowest things in the world; it remains you all those Tortoise and Rabbit race stories. For example if you wanted to check a mail from your uncle who lives in Canada, by the time my internet shows my mailbox, I would have gone by boat to his house and returned back. Well, I don’t have any better example to showcase my slow internet connection.
After switching on my Laptop I thought of having some fresh air, so I opened the front door and then I was baffled at what I saw in front of my eyes. I saw a thing in round shape, covered with blood and some other flesh. It was there lying just opposite to my front door. I saw it on the television news 2 days before that these days they kill people, cut their bodies into several pieces and through it in random places. Probably, some murderers killed someone and thrown his head in front of my opposite flat. I had this quiver all over my body, suddenly my heart pulse gone high and I was expecting my heart in my open mouth anytime. I have adjusted my eyes, put the lights on of the front area and seen the thing. My heart went again to its original place; fresh air coming from the open space was blowing in front of my face. The thing which was lying in front of my door is not actually a head of a human body, it was a pumpkin covered with red powder (kungumam). The guy who is living in my opposite flat believes in all these Mantra & Magic. The scary little thing in front of the door must be one of his belief to get rid of his problems, I thought he must get rid of his alcoholic habit first, instead scaring his neighbors with his magic and mantra items.
When I came back inside my house, the internet connection somehow managed to pull itself in. I went straight to youtube.com and checked the videos that my friend asked me to watch. I was about to puke then, I ate only 2 chapattis that night and I felt it might come out anytime. The video was showing some guys pictures that have profile in PlanetRomeo. It was a screenshot, showing several guys’ pictures, details of their sexual preferences and location etc. There was even a contact number. This time I was annoyed by this. Whoever posted this video must be really aggravated by the rejections of these guys and wanted revenge. This is not the first time somebody posting a screenshot of gay’s pictures in youtube. Last year somebody did the same and I found several of my friends’ pictures in that video too. I had to inform one of my friends who was working in Google operations to remove the video. Also I have realized the moment the news about this video got out to the community most of the guys removed their face-picture from their profile.
We are putting up so much effort to motivate and encourage guys to come out of their closet, but video like this will not be helpful at all. I have no idea who is posting these types of videos, but either he must be a homophobic who wants to discourage gays or someone who wants to be a famous queen asking his friend to post the guy’s picture including his own. Last time we let this guy go, but not now. We have found clues about the guy who is posting videos like this and he will be punished. If things like this continue to happen we will take legal action against guys who are laughing at gays and bisexuals. Please remember that Gay sex is almost legalized in India and we are just waiting for one more step to go ahead. If you are going to do all sort of evil things like this and refuse to respect others privacy in our Gay community, sooner you will be educated by us.
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Thursday, July 23, 2009
'Coming out' gathering & discussions for young gays, lesbians and bisexuals of chennai on Sunday, 26th July 2009 at 6.30 p.m. Chennai Dost organising a group for guys to meet like minded people and find friends. The topic will be discussed this week is 'Coming out'.
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Support Group Meeting for parents and siblings of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in Chennai. Facilitated by Center for Counselling, a non-profit organization, the meeting will provide a supportive and confidential space where parents and siblings can ask questions, get factual information, and most importantly, meet other parents who are struggling to cope with similar issues relating to their adult children.
July 25th, Saturday, 3 pm, Center for Counselling, Radhakrishnan Salai, Chennai
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Tuesday, July 21, 2009
I happened to meet this so called psychologist who supposed to fix me from my gayness. He asked so many questions and concluded by asking “Are you longing for something?” ”Do you find meaning in your life?”
For a moment I got perplexed. I thought I have been answering very well for all the questions that he asked. But I could figure out only later that the questions got hidden meaning and you can’t just answer it out of your brain.
The beautiful part is, the psychologist never tried to fix me instead he showed me what I am and where I should be heading towards…
If we introspect deeply, most of our questions will be like this...
Where is my Mr. Right?
What is the meaning of my life?
Am I sleeping with someone whom I actually suppose to sleep with?
Am I shallow?
Even though I accept myself as 100% hall marked gay, I still face and struggle with the above questions in my life all the time. Can’t there be any solutions? How come everyone around the world handle this so called problem of “EMPTINESS”?
I remember the exercise suggested by the psychologist. Close your eyes and imagine the following scenes.
“I receive a call from my manager and he asks me to go home immediately saying there is someone who is close to me passed away without mentioning who is that. I rush to the house and find all my close relatives mourning and weeping. My relatives and friends are crying out to the heavens. The coffin is beautifully decorated, ready to be taken to the church. I do see my mom and dad, brothers and sister… I ask everyone who is dead? No one seems to answer me and hear me. All are crying their heart out. I go near the death bed and remove the cloth. I am astonished for a moment…I am dead,
The body is taken to the church and the mass is solemnly celebrated. Everyone in my family are asked to say few words about me…They called my mom first…and then my dad….followed by my brothers and sisters…my straight and gay friends…my relatives…
What would you want them to say about you? What kind of achievement and contributions you would want them to remember? What impact have you made in their life that you want them to talk about? ”
The exercise ends here but the impact of it remains in me forever.
In my death I started to find the meaning of my life.
If you have taken this meditation seriously…by now you could have found the meaning of your gay life. It is easier to write tons of concepts than to leave everyone with useful exercise.
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Sunday, July 19, 2009
We were cracking jokes and having fun. Some guys even started talking about the guys who were passing by. I know its naughty but im still young and I enjoyed it anyway. We have decided to go a nearby restaurant and have something for our appetite. It was a New Mexican restaurant with an alluring interior designing. We were there for more than 20 minutes waiting for someone to take the order from us, nobody turned up. We were the only people who were in the restaurant. One of our friends got irritated by this kind of service from a new restaurant; he suggested that we must leave the restaurant as unnoticed. As I am always lazy to move my butt, I refused to leave the restaurant and tried to justify my decision by saying “sorry, we can’t leave, I have already used 2 napkins (tissue paper) from the table and drank half glass water”. I forced my other friends to stay with me.
After another 30 long minutes a guy came and took the order. I must say the Mexican burger was too cold and the Pepsi they gave me was even warmer. When we left the restaurant we were seriously thinking in our mind which one among us suggested this restaurant in the first place.
We returned back to the footpath and sat just opposite to Barista which is our favorite spot. I must say after the Gay Pride and Court Verdict most of the guys in Chennai have become curious about Gays and gay sex even the damn straight ones. Almost everyone who passed by us was looking at our group, almost everybody looks like gays. Early days it is tough to find out a gay in a group, but now it seems the opposite, it’s tough to find out a damn straight one in a group. I remember a joke which is about a Gay’s perception somebody said even gay’s pet animal is also a gay.
Somebody said there are 5 types of men in Chennai now. Straight looking gay men, Gay looking straight men, bi-curious straight men, confused bisexual men and obvious looking gay men. Well, I totally agree to this after observing all the men in the footpath curiously looking at our gay group. One of my heterosexual friend said to me that being gay is much easier to have abundant sex and finding a guy than being a straight guy in India. He also cautioned me that by legalizing Gay sex in India, access to sex have become despicable and effortless, which might break the Indian tradition of sticking to one partner or long term commitment.
P.S: As usual the guy I was supposed to meet never turned up, seems like there is something terribly wrong with my Today’s fortune. Seems like my charming prince never going to let his horse out of the saddle and will never ride on it to reach my place, may be busy Traffic or the horse led him to some other beach by mistake.
As i have informed before im beginning to meet few guys in person who have been following our blog, iam also chatting with them and responding to their mails...But, i have received plenty of mails carrying fierce questions from our readers after the FAQ section. These are the follow up questions from the readers of our FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) section of May month edition...
- Iam thinking of getting married, but my penis is too small, is there anyway i can make it big? (asked by a 28 year old guy)
- Are you Top or Bottom?
- Iam looking for a sexy bottom in Mylapore, do you know anyone?
- In previous "Boys don’t cry" section you have mentioned about Mohit, what happened after that? You had sex with him later on? Did you fuck him? What is his cock’s size? etc
- Have you ever had Group sex? Is it healthy?
- I have place tonight, do you like to come?
- How many times we can masturbate in a given day?
- You mentioned about your sexy straight friend Ar, May i have his number?
- I don’t have a voter's identity card, how can i apply for that?
- I would like to act in a Gay Porn Movie, find enclosed my cock pictures, can you help me?
After facing all these questions (totally gross man), im not really sure if i can start another FAQ section...To the people who have asked me these questions...get life, refresh your thoughts...
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Somebody said that the first testicular (abdomen) guard was used in Cricket in 1874 and first helmet was used in 1974, it took 100 years for men to realize that the brain is also important. Though the message is funny but it’s almost true, most of us giving too much importance to sex and forget about there is a thing called Mind. We are all running for cute faces, huge cocks and perfect asses but ended up in break ups and it’s very common in Indian Gay scene these days. Do you know that there are 100 websites for gays to do online dating but very few for lesbians?
Whenever you are poignant, cheerless and need some humor in your life just visit either planetromeo or yahoo chat room no 9. The moment you enter yahoo chat room it will be laughing on the floor all the time. It is a funny, weird and hilarious world. Sometimes you wonder whether you are in a chat room or in a bus stand. Like all those private bus conductors trying to aboard passengers and fill up the seats, these guys will be selling their areas of all different directions of Chennai city from East to west, north to south. Areas like Anna nagar, T nagar, Royapettah, Adyar, Tamabaram etc will be up for sale. Guys who belong to these areas will be selling themselves for cheap prices just for a suck or 69 etc…May God save Singara Chennai
Especially in India, we have mistaken the western term “Dating”. We think dating is to find someone to have sex. We wanted to have sex with almost all hot studs in Planetromeo, some people even have a calendar for that, unbelievable isn’t it? Recently I met a College student, he shown me a small phonebook where he has taken down more than 250 guys mobile number along with their profile names and location. I was quite shocked when I checked the phonebook, almost all the profiles which I have seen in the g4m are in it including mine. Another shocking news when the same guy told me that he is not sure about his sexuality and he just wanted to find out before he finds a girl…May God save the world
Some guys utter about friendship, love stuff like that, the moment you start chatting with them their first question will be What is your cock size etc…And then those weird pictures in their profile, ass and boobs pictures in different positions and angels, it look totally gross…Oh my god…guys, posting ugly, unclean ass pictures of yours are not going to impress anybody, if you think it will raise our libido, you have no idea how much it makes us puke. At least keep this picture in your private album show it to the people who are desperate for it. Recently I have seen a profile of a teen guy who mentioned that he has an 8 inch thing and posted his nude pictures. After seen his nude pictures I have asked him if he by mistake mentioned as ‘inch’ instead of ‘millimeter’. There was no response from the other end.
Iam not totally against one night stands either; honestly I was one among them in the past. But having sex with someone you have known is different but fucking someone and forgetting him in the morning is totally gross. It sounds like what animals do. One night stand is a Western term, which suits to their lifestyle, culture and society, but not for India. We Indians don’t do sex, we do lovemaking. It’s because the court has given a verdict and allowed to have sex between consensual adults between men that doesn’t mean we can have sex with infinite number of strangers, we might ended up with dangerous disease . We as a new generation have to clean up this mess, let’s at least get to know someone before having sex. Trust me guys, it is a different experience when you have sex with someone you love or someone you care for or someone you are comfortable with or someone you have shared.
Sex is an art of expressing feelings, its not just an act. It should not be scheduled or arranged. There has to be a thrill and curiosity in it. Sex is basically to know more about the person, it’s a seeking, and the destination should not be known until you reach the climax. Knowing his likes, stats, roles, sizes etc even before having sex is like Pre-programming machine work.
When Gandhi started the freedom struggle of India, he decided that cleaning up the social evils of the country like dowry, caste and religious bias, corruption etc is the first priority to lay the foundation for the movement. And by slowly doing that the whole nation was united and given strength for the Freedom struggle against British. And finally we have got Independence. Now this is the time for a Gay Movement in the country. There are so many people who are working up their ass for Gay rights. Our responsibility is to clean up the mess such as the above mentioning acts in the internet. The society must see as clean, pure, good hearted, intellectual and creative people who have a different sexual preference, not as perverted and desperate minds who do all sort of evil things just for few minutes of sexual pleasure. As an younger generation we will not let things slip away...Remember we dont do sex, we do lovemaking...
Written by: Raghuram & Vikrant
Saturday, July 11, 2009
I found many of my old friends and some new friends. And there were plenty of things to talk and giggle about. But unfortunately I ran out of topic, I felt like an idiot sitting in the middle of hot conversation. The host decorated the party room with rainbow sashes hanging on the walls with gold and silver drapes in between, there were candle lights giving a gay mood for the party. Somebody called me to dance when I was busy counting the slashes.
Guys were watching my favorite gay theme movie ‘Birdcage’ when I was seriously searching for my beer bottle. There were so many new guys coming in and going out I had trouble recognizing who is who…Some faces I could recognize through g4m and some through Chennai Dost. There were nearly 33 to 35 guests and was a on-invitation ONLY social evening celebrating the Delhi High Court's ruling over Article 377. But actually the party was rocking in many ways, i must thank the host for putting up an effort to celebrate the verdict against 377. Onething im sure of I must immediately find a tutorial for party lessons.
Friday, July 10, 2009
No matter how hard you try, there are certain things in the world you cant change...there is this proverb in our hills "Always ask for the best part of the snake flesh, if you are living in a snake eating world"...this proverb is actually in one of the Coorgi local language which i have tried my best to translate in English. But is it possible for a gay to pretend like a straight in a hetrosexual world?...How long i can pretend to be a straight guy in one world and gay in another world, certainly i dont want to live with a multiple personality disorder. Though most of my friends and family people know my sexuality, I still kept my straight and gay world apart. After the Chennai Pride, I have determined to bring these two diverse world together; so that I don’t have to live two lives at the same time…I don’t have to pretend…I don’t have to live a lie
But the task is not easier, most of my heterosexual friends are reluctant to meet my gay friends, but the converse is not the same. In the beginning the reluctance of my straight friends to blend with my gay circle was quite surprising to me, but later on I found out the reason behind it. The reasons are as follows
- Almost of all these straight friends have become my friends without knowing about my sexuality, when they learnt about my sexuality, later on somehow they have accepted to it, but they have not accepted homosexuality in general.
- Most of these straight friends are homophobes one way or other. They used to crack jokes about homosexuality. Suddenly it is difficult for them to accept the idea of gay as natural and human.
- Though they have accepted me as a friend, but they can’t be the same to my other gay friends, because their sexuality comes to their mind first but not friendship.
- Because these people know me for several years, they think iam so unique unlike other gays. I’m not gay stereotype and I don’t seduce them, pretty funny though
Well, honestly as of now I have no solutions to solve this problem, but I might come up with one sooner or later. As of now only thing I can do is to avoid these homophobes or try to educate them. One thing which iam certain of is to make sure that they had no choice in accepting my gay world if they intended to keep up with my friendship for long.
We still need to go a long way for a better civilization, for acceptance of the diversity, for the acceptance of the Freedom of will, it takes time, and it may take years in India…Lets hope for a change
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
The rhythm was on, music was shattering around the walls...i could hear MJ was crying aloud, asking everyone to 'beat it'...i could feel my legs started moving slowly, trying to balance myself and my beer...crowd was young and energetic on that Saturday night in Bikes n Barrels...i started noticing people around me...subash was standing next to me with his one hand around my hips...few of my friends from g4m were trying their best to get Subash's attention without knowing that he is straight...i started dancing along with Subash and then i saw that new boy entering the floor with his friend...i was lost again in the music...'just beat it, just beat it'
Things which looks so perennial in the world is not actually the same, one thing may be exceptional, the Gay lifestyle...the moment i entered the disco, i knew, I am back to my gay world after a long time...handshakes passing by the heat of the moment, kisses to let you know how close you are, costumes to pronounce the world how out you are, drinks which takes you far above the ground, dance which makes even tables budge around and then the music, numbers that gives diverse sensation. I am back again…
Being gay is not all about sober and sex starved...it is about enjoying each and every passing moments of your life...the word called marriage institution may not fit to the gay world, but definitely the word partying will suits us well...yes, sometimes i live in a lonely planet but i give my best to come out of it, because it does no good...so i hang out, party and live...i dont want to sound like a Gay stereotype, but i also understood the meaning of my life and easier ways to find out happiness, i have also understood having sex with another guy is not the only thing about being gay...sometimes i feel like wanted to come out of the strings attached in the hetrosexual society like marriage, love, family, kids, relatives, society, religion etc, it may be too difficult for us now, but im doing my best to find out the real happiness...i dont want to follow the path of my ancestors who have written the rules how to live a life in india...i refuse to live a lie...i refuse to live the way someone wanted me to...As Brian Kinney says "im gay, im a cocksucker, im a homosexual, im queer, i like to fuck a man, i like to suck cocks, i like rimming, i like to part the cheeks of the ass like mosses parted the red sea...if anyone here is not comfortable with it, if anyone thinks im so evil, i will say go to hell"
I have been invited to join the guys celebrating the court verdict for 377. As I ran out of boyfriends, I have asked Subash to accompany me and he did with compassion. As they promised the turn out of guys was not the same, but as minutes passed by, more guys joined in. I and Subash thoroughly enjoyed each and every moment with the guys. I saw this new guy entering with his friend wearing a tight jeans and a short shirt. He was so young, cute, sexy and shy, but carrying a great confidence on his head…I immediately liked his attitude, I was standing quite far from him, trying to find out if he is watching me, surprisingly he did, he even smiled at me and saying something to his friend pointing at me…the music was even louder now, guys started shaking their bodies...it was thumpa thumpa all around
I moved closer to him and try to start a conversation. I asked him louder “do u like this number”…he replied with a “yep”…there was a pause and then he turned his head towards me and asked “I’m DJ, have we met before?”…I immediately said “no dude, I don’t think so” I continued “I have never met a cute guy like you before” (bravo!)…his face was flushing and he gave me a sexy smile…he asked me “what is your name?” I told him my name…and then he said “my friend wanted to dance with you, what you say?”…I was not expecting it, but I replied “I would like to dance with both of you”…I took his friend’s hand and dragged him to the floor and danced with him for a minute, while I was watching DJ staring at me all the while…I went to DJ and asked him to dance with me…he had a wonderful body matching with a great hips and waist…the music was now more vibrant…I dragged DJ more closer, felt the perfume he was using and the heat of his body…the dance was rhythmic, I could feel his breath near my neck…and then I saw my friends coming out of smoking room…I left DJ to his friend and moved to the smoking room…When I left the pub it was almost 2'o clock, I looked at DJ’s number I have stored in my mobile phone triumphantly…it was a thriving night of course.
P.S: Later on i found out that the phone number of DJ's actually is the phone number of a 45 year old guy who owns a mutton shop in Choolaimedu...its all in the game, isn't it?
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Saturday, July 4, 2009
Thursday, July 2, 2009
The big news was actually being misinterpreted by many people that it was binded to Delhi only. But finally, as per the real judgement we can say that the Gay sex between adults is legal in whole of India.
Chennai Dost would like to thank all those people including Naz Foundation who fought hard for this great verdict which will bring smile to millions of gays in India. We would like to thank the judges who ordered this verdict and the media support. Now Gays can proudly say that we are living in a Great Democratic Country.
Though there is a court order now, we still need to go a long way and fight for the acceptance of the society, gay marriages, benefits for sexual minorities which will help us to live in a normal way with the basic fundamental rights...but as of now...It is party time guys...